Encouters With Willa

The following encounters are from when severeal people have met Willa.

A 13-year-old girl approached a security guard in a hotel to see if she could get Nick's autograph. Nick walked over to her and got a piece of paper from the front desk and began signing it. The girl recalls standing several feet from Nick and asking "How are you?" and "How's the tour going?" before Willa, who was behind Nick, called the fan "a retarded psychob**ch" and dragged Nick away (as if the fan's interest in Nick was too powerful, or something). Nick apparently waved to the girl with a wistful look as he was dragged off.



Thanks To Kim for this encouter:

My best friends and I went to the March 3-00 concert in Dallas!
We were some of the first to arrive so we went down to our seats to check out the stage view, we have front row seats on the west side of the stage, anyways. There were a few of the dancers in the blocked of area by the stage so we were talking with them, we asked them if at all possible could they take a couple of close bsb pics for us, they said yes and took our cameras and went backstage, within about 5 mins. they came back and said they had gotten pictures of all the guys except Nick, I explained how he was my favorite one, and asked why a picture of him could not have been taken, they said that one of the other females backstage wouldn't allow it. I didn't think nothing of it at the time ( I didn't know that Willa was opening for them then) and talked them into trying once more after the show. It was getting closer to time for the concert to start so my best friend and I went out to look at the bsb stuff and to use the rest-rooms and pick up a few drinks. We made it to the rest-room and there was a body gaurd at the entrances he watched us walk in and all, once in there we did what we had to and I was washing my hands when Willa came out of one of the Stalls. I told her that she looked really familar, and she explained who she was, I was like "wow", she asked if I wanted an autograph, I said no thanks, she was like why, I simply told her that I would rather have Nicks and the other guys, she begin to get upset, and asked if we were fans of hers and again I said no. She got really mad and left the rest-room, I didn't see any more of her until she opened. Then she took a seat close to our side when the boys came out. My friends and I were cheering on the guys and stuff and yelling for our favs, she kept giving us dirty looks through out the whole show. I didn't really pay much attention to her for the rest of the concert. Afterwards one of the dancers came back over to our side and got my camera and took it backstage, Willa came back out with it and threw it at me, she said that Nick didn't want to pose for a picture and she didn't think it was a good idea if I continued trying that he was hers and no fan was going to f**k that up. She was being really rude.
I got the picture of Nick thanks to Leighanne. Leigh turned out to be really nice, and when she overheard what Willa had said she took my camera and got the picture for me. Later on at the hotel that they were staying at We were in the lobby, and heard a lot of yelling, we went to check it out, Willa was b**ching nick out for looking at some girl and not paying attention to her, she finally noticed us there she came over and pushed me, yelling " WHAT THE F**K DO YOU WANT B**CH," and asking if I wanted to start something. Leighanne stepped in and told her to go to the rooms, Nick before getting on the elevator whipered "I'm sorry" and gave us each an autograph.
That's my experience with Willa, and I just want to add, that her music and performance were not that great and I honestly dont know how Nick convinced them to sign her. I feel sorry for any other person that has come in contact with her and in person that may in the future. Nick if you read this thanks for the kindness I hope things get better for you.
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Thanks to LocaShadow for this experience:

durin one concert (cant member when). i had taken my friend and her cuz for fun (her cuz had luekemia) and we got everyones autograph with the help of the make-a-wish we got ot go backstage but. that snotty brat wouldnt even let her get a pic of her and nick. she pulled him aside and started b***hin at him then towards us. i got pissed off and told ehr to f**k off. and that we're hearin to see BSB nto u. then when she went on stage, nick took pix and gave auto's to her. he even signed her wheelchair so she has it always. what i cant believe she even denied a sick fan! what a b*tch!



Thanks To SUSAN for this encounter

Willa? Willa! SHE IS NOTHING BUT A TOTAL W##RE! I MET HER AT METRO CENTER AND I GOT BACKSTAGE PASSES AND I SEEN THIS GIRL KISSING NICK AND SHE SAID, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING HERE? I SAID I GOT BACKSTAGE PASSES. AND THEN SHE SAID GET THE HELL AWAY FROM MY BOYFRIEND AND THEN NICK CAME AND SAID TO Willa GET AWAY! YOU CAN'T BE CONTROLLING MY LIFE SO HE TOOK Willa AND LOCKED HER IN THE BATHROOM AND ME AND NICK TALKED FOR A BIT AND THEN GAVE ME HIS AUTOGRAPH AND THEN I KISSED HIM GOODBYE. BUT IT WAS HARD TO SAY GOODBYE TO THE PERSON LOVED.



Thanks to JaeLyn for this Willa encounter:

The reason that I dislike Willa/Mandah/Willa, is because in September of 1999, I took my little 13 yr old cousin to go see the Backstreet Boys into the millenium tour at the Continental Arena. I am not a big fan of the boys, but I do enjoy some of their music. I drove my little cousin to the concert that day and after the opening act finished up, I went to find the bathroom. On my way to the bathroom, I bumped into a girl with dirty blond hair, and was about 5'7'' or so. I apologized and asked her if she knew where the bathroom was and she said "why don't you watch where you're going?? did you not see I was standing here?!" At 1st I was like ok, but then I got upset because I apologized and the chick was STILL being rude. I told her that unless she was deaf then I'm sure she heard me say sorry. She rolled her eyes and walked away. I had NO clue who she was until my little cousin showed me a picture of Nick Carter and his girlfriend. I then realized that the girl from the concert was Willa.

-JaeLyn



Thanks to Sweetieheart2762 for the following:

My friend and I were at a BSB concert last September. We got there early b/c we heard that people could go onstage w/ their parents for the perfect fan if they arrived early. When we got there, we saw all these dancers standing outside. My friend goes to a dance academy and wanted to talk to the dancers. When we started talking to them about liking nick and dancing and stuff, this girl we didn't know started cursing at us. She was staying stuff like what do u tink yur doing, trying to come in here and take what's mine. Then she walked away. The dancers not to worry about it, it was only willa. we now know who she is and my friend told every1 she is the biggest b*tch we've ever met.



Thanks to Dezirae for the next experience:

I love your website!!
I personally hate willa of her attitude towards the Nick fans, 1st of all i know for a fact that yes she is bithcy coz i met her at a concert 3-1-00 TX And u know what she told me she said i had no right to be snooping around a "looking for nick" I was all im not looking for nick u dumbass im looking 4 my sister and just becoz u dont have ne fans dosent mean u have the right to acuse me of looking for nick when i really wasnt. Well, i wanted to say that Willa fans who come here are obvisouly blind or cant read, or there just dorkasses, because any willa fan wouldnt come to a site that is totally against willa. And if willa fans do come to this site they email u and bitch to u saying u have no right saying willa is this and so on... well HELLO thiz is boycott willa site,
Well Keep up the good work



Thanks to Cassandra for the next experience. **Note: We are not Nick's personal dating service so we can't answer any questions about this. If you have any questions, please email Cassandra. Hello... My name is Cassandra. I am 19, and I live in Orlando, Florida. I'm writing to let you know about an encounter that I had with Willa Willaford... This will sound SO unbelievable, but I can swear on the Holy Bible that it is the truth. I met Nick for the first time about six months ago, in an Orlando club. He was sweet... I immediately fell for him. I was with my friend Elizabeth and Nick was with Alex (AJ) and we're flirters, so we went to the bar and started talking to them. It wasn't long before we were out there dancing. I was with Nick, Lizzie was with AJ. We danced for a while, the decided to talk. I had no idea who he was, I just thought he was cute! And so we first went and sat down at a table, then realized it was too loud to do any talking. So we went outside, across the street, to a little pond, and sat on the bench. When he took off his hat and sunglasses, I was shocked. I tried not to show it though... I recognized him. I have never been a big fan of BSB. I've heard a few songs, but that's it. Nick and I continued to talk- About everything. Jobs, school, pets, family, everything. He was so sweet... Unlike most guys I talked to, who didn't look me in the eye like he did, but instead looked at my chest. He answered my questions completely... It was amazing to me that I had met such a spectacular guy. When there was a silence, he asked me very politely if he could kiss me. I told him he could, and it was PERFECT. We decided to walk back to the club. Judging by the time, Liz and AJ should be done. But, they weren't. We found them doing a little dirty dancing and let them be. They looked very comfortable with each other. So we went back outside. Nick and I walked around the block a few times, talking some more. He had his arm around me, which was sweet! At 3 AM, we went back, and Lizzie and AJ were ready to leave. We walked out, and Nick asked me for my number. I gave him my number and my e-mail address, which was frackzcutie04@aol.com. I was a little embarrassed at that one, but he just laughed. As Liz and AJ were saying good-by, Nick and I were too. I left the parking lot feeling happy I had finally met the perfect guy. Nick called 2 days later, while I was at work. He left a message saying hi, and he wanted to see me again, and gave me his number to call him back. I did, and we went for our first date at Joe's Crab Shack. He was so sweet and nice. He was a true gentleman. That date triggered a few more. After a month, Nick invited me to stay the weekend at his house near Tampa, saying we would go to Busch Gardens, and he's take me for a ride on his boat. I told him yes, and I drove down there. The weekend was amazing... I won't go into details, but Nick and I had fun. Everything was great until Willa showed up one day. Nick and I were in the middle of watching a movie. He got up to answer the door. Willa barged right in, yelling and pushing Nick about something she'd left there. Nick was being a gentleman, of course, and stood quietly. Then, when she paused, she looked around, and saw me on the couch, staring right back at her. She was yelling something like, You've got a new bi%$h?! Who'd want you? You're worthless!' I couldn't believe it. I got up and tried to defend myself and my boyfriend. NO ONE talked about me that way! She started screaming in my face and back at Nick, while I remained calm. After a little bit, she gave up with yelling and left. Nick cried, and I cried seeing him like that. She was so rude... Since that incident, Willa has done what she could to find out about me. She has my address, my phone number, my e-mail address, she knows where I work... It's scary. She has written me awful letters such as, 'You're a worthless wh&$re and I'm going to kill you' She has left me numerous messages on my answering machine, saying she is coming to kill me and she'll get her man back. She shows up at my work, just out of thin air. I tell her to please go away, but she tells me it's a free country and she'll do what she pleases. Nick knows about this, the police do. I can't have a restraining order against her, because she hasn't hurt me yet. But I just want to let everyone know that everything you hear about Willa is true. She is very disrespectful. I know that there are so many Nick fans and Backtreet Boys fans out there, who love the Boys so much. And me, being a girlfriend of Nick, am very aware that there are people like Willa out there. Who hate me, don't know me... They judge me for who I date. I have my own money. I have a job, working at Walt Disney World. I am putting myself through a four year college. I'm majoring in journalism at UCF. I have my own car, my own house... I could survive without Nick financially. But emotionally, I don't know if I could. Nick and I are both very young. We have found love. While we both don't know if this will be a totally serious relationship, we are happy at the present time. I am not like Willa. I have no intentions whatsoever of keeping Nick away from his fans. I love to meet his fans- You can even e-mail me, and I'll write to you. I keep in touch with them. That's who I am. I love Nick Carter for Nick, NOT Nick Backstreet like Willa did. I love Nick, and right now I don't see any reason why anyone should feel threatened that I'll take him away from what he loves- His family, his music, his fans, his friends- They all mean so much to him, and we only want to make each other happy. If you would like to get to know me better, I'd be happy to. I'll answer any questions, about Willa, about Nick, about myself... I thought you fans would want to know what was up with Willa at the moment. Nick has a restraining order against her, and my house is protected so she won't some. I don't know whether to take her threats seriously, or what. But I'm careful, and I have Nick to protect me. Thanks for listening to my story.
Cassandra



Thanks to Florida Girl for these encounters!

Run in #1
The first time I met her was at a BSB concert while her and Nick were dating. While heres the story: I was standing near the stage entrance door. Well, my friend and I talked the guard into going inside and seeing if he could get any of the guys to come out. Well, I mentioned Nick was our fave and the next thing I knew Nick Carter was walking toward us. He signed my picture of him and was signing a picture for my friend, when the nightmare came storming out of the door. She stood behind him while he finished signing it. She placed her hands on her hips and kept sighing like she was in a hurry. I asked if he would take a picture with us and he sweetly said "Yeah, I'd love to" He turned around to ask the guard and Willa grabbed my camera from the guard and said, "No hell no this is a bunch of s%*t, you are such pussy you always say yes, say no once in your life!" Nick looked at her and told her nicely to go back in she didn't and kept yelling at him! This went on for about 5 mins. I was in shock that she was so mean! Nick just took it! Then the guard grabbed my camera from her and she got pissed of at that and started yelling at the guard. He handed the camera to my friend and she looked at us and said (and I quote) "You stupid b*#%hes what the h#@l are ya'll looking at? Ya'll just need to F%$# off!" She stormed off and went back in. Nick then took like 10 pictures with us and apologized for her behavior and asked us where we were setting we gave him the set numbers and during the show he said (and I quote) "A shout out to the cute girls in section 211 row L seats 15 and 16." He made my night! He is such a nice guy and she is evil. I'm happy they broke up. Nick is so much better off without the devil in he's life!

Run in #2
B/c I leave in Tampa I have friend who know people and one night at a party Nick and Willa walked in. She wouldn't let him go! Seriously she had a hold of he's arm the whole time expect for when she was flirting with some other guy! She started flirting with my friend (we'll call him D) D and let go of Nick's arm. My other friend (we'll call her J) J suggested I go over and flirt with Nick while D talked to Willa. I protested and said I was to shy to approach him like that! Well, she grabbed me a dragged me toward the area he was in (which was mostly guys maybe one or two girls). Willa asked who D came with and he pointed at us (we were at this point about 2 feet away from Nick) (oh I didn't actually hear what she said but this is from what D told me afterwards) She got the look of pure terror on her face and started walking toward us. At that point I pulled away from J's grep. I let her know that I didn't feel right about walking across the room and flirting with a guy who all ready had a girlfriend. Willa then stopped walking toward us and asked D if he knew how to dirty dance he said yeah a little. They walked to the middle of the dance floor and DIRTY DANCE like something you've never seen before! I looked at J in shock, that she would dance like that with someone she just met! We both looked at Nick and he wasn't paying attention so J talked me into at least walking all the way to he's group so we did. He asked our names and said I looked familiar. I told him, we had met a few months before in Orlando, he said he remembered but I don't think actually did. Well, my back was toward the dance floor and Nick looked over my head and saw her dancing with D, he looked hurt and then excused himself he walked to the dance floor. When he got to Willa and D, D stopped dancing and apologized and walked away and Willa just turned to dance with someone else. Nick asked her to stop and asked her to go out and talk she refused and told him to f@#$ off. He walked away and came back to the area I was in and started talking to us again. He reassured D that it was cool and that Willa is just like that. B/c I didn't want to flirt J did it for me, you know the "oh A here loves music and boy can she sing, and she such an actress too, she is a catch, let me tell you! Oh and did I mention she's really smart she's in the 10% of her class" (By the way I'm A) He just smiled and kept talking about me to J. Well I actually then started to talk to him and I forgot about Willa being there and as soon as I started talking about being single, Willa came up (it's like she had radar) and grabbed Nick and told him it was time to go. He let her know he was having fun talkin' to new people and insisted she go back to dancing! She grabbed the drink out of he's hand put it on the table and pulled him to an area where there wasn't anyone. This is what I over heard:
Nick "Willa chill, we having fun!
Willa "You were flirting with those f%$# B#@$hs!"
Nick "No I wasn't I was being friendly!"
Willa "Whatever! You're a F$#%ing A#@hole"
Willa walked away and walked past us and called us all hoes. We laughed. D asked me to dance and I of course said yes. We started dancing and she grabbed D and D refused and explained he was dancing with me. She yelled at me and called me a F%$#ing Hoarier from Ybor. I got sick of her telling people stuff like that. I walked over to her and told her my opinion of her "You are the B$#%h. You're always mean to Nick! I've never been Ybor and as for D he was dancing with you to give Nick a break from you and now you've ruined him. Now he's gay!! Thanks a lot B$#@h! Oh and no one cares if you wanna be bad, that song sucks!" I walked off the dance floor grabbed J, who was laughing at me for telling Willa off. Nick looked at me and smiled. We all decided that it would be a good idea to leave. So we did. Oh D was gay to begin with so she didn't actually turn him gay although, we all agree she looks like a Drag Queen!

These are my experiences meeting Willa Ford. I don't like her! She's very rude and mean to everyone expect for when it's to her benefit! She uses people and I think it's great she was a one hit wonder! Infect her song was never really that popular! So there you go the evil to get there's! Nick is a great guy and I just would like to say I feel sorry for him ever dating her. I would like say I'm single and I'm nice to everyone who is nice to me and if I see someone being mean to almost every one I let them know my opinion of them! So good luck to Nick and Willa go away, very far away!

*~Florida Girl~*