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G'day and welcome to my homepage. If you had told me in my mid twenties that I was to become an openly gay, vegeterian, sober and clean, practising Buddhist I would have thought you were mad. Yet this is exactly where I now happily find myself, a 42 year old Aussie guy living in a studio apartment in a trendy
inner-city suburb of Sydney.

My spiritual journey has been both a long and at times difficult one. From my early rejection of both Catholicism and Christianity, to the spiritual desert of active addiction, & my eventual spiritual awakening in recovery. It was an interest in the Eastern Traditions in the mid 1990's that eventually led me to Buddhism. In October 1998 I took provisional
refuge and became fully commited to the Buddhist path, later taking more formal refuges and precepts in a simple but beautiful ceremony at a local Buddhist Centre. Spiritually, I finally felt I had come home.

I am also a member of
Alcoholics Anonymous. If you also happen to be GLBT and are seeking a recovery meeting in Sydney, be sure to get along to my current homegroup at Rainbow Recovery. And if your seeking a weekly meditation meeting, be sure to check out the 11th Step Group.

I was in trouble right from the start and drank for 10 years. Drugs were to also play a part for 6 of those years, but alcohol was my drug of choice. Still full of denial, but also filled with desperation, I came to my first meeting of AA at the age of 26. A few months later, I was finally to gain my sobriety on the 15th July 1992. One day at a time I have remained sober and clean ever since. Although I now consider myself to be recovered, though not cured, of my addiction, I continue to attend meetings for both fellowship and for what little I can put back.

Buddhism and a
non-theistic approach to AA's 12-steps now provide the focal point for my spiritual life. I may no longer be in recovery, but I continue to be in transformation.  My Buddhist and 12-step practise provide me a spiritual foundation for living that enables me to find contentment and peace in the here and now. A journey of discovery towards serenity and ultimate enlightenment.

It was November 2001 that I got my first tattoos, I now have five. All were done by the
Steel Lotus Body Art Studio at Darlinghurst here in Sydney, who I highly recommend. Three are tribals and two are Kanji. You can see a pic of each of my tattoo's by clicking here. I also have two piercings. A diamond stud in my left ear and a diamond-studded bar in my right nipple.

Coming out as gay in January 2003 felt a bit like a final piece of a large puzzle falling into place, yet in many ways was an exciting new beginning. I now live with Ronald, my 29 year old Indonesian born boyfriend, along with our pet cat Oscar

Today I have a full life of family and friends, and my Buddhist and recovery sangha. I love spending time with my
teenage daughter, and enjoy movies, music, clubbing, shopping, eating out, reading, and exploring Sydney. I also like surfing the net, visiting my favourite blogs, updating Bebo, and chatting  with new and old online friends.

My long time internet handle "
Bodhi" is a Buddhist term that literally translates as meaning awakened. Its a fitting description I think for my journey thus far, a gradual awakening to recovery, self and spirit.

Please feel free to sign my guestbook before you go. May you be well and happy, and may peace and serenity be with you this 24.


BODHI'S HOMEPAGE
MY INFORMATION:
Internet Handle: 
Bodhi
Real Name:  Michael
Lives: 
Newtown, Sydney, Australia
Horoscope:
Leo and  Snake
Date of Birth:  19th August 1965
Sobriety Date:  15th July 1992 
Refuge Date: 19th October 1998
Came Out:  17th January 2003
Picture:
Yahoo or Myspace or Bebo
Email:  bodhi_01au@yahoo.com.au
CHECK OUT THESE LINKS:
A Summary of Buddhism
What the Buddha Taught
Essentials of Buddhism
Eight Fold Path and Five Precepts
Dhammapada and The Heart Sutra
Queer Sangha and Buddhist Library
Buddhanet and Buddhist Channel
Buddhist Wallpaper and Artwork
Becoming Buddhist and Converting
Wildmind Meditation Site
Religion in Australia (2006 Census)
Bodhi's Buddhist Non-Theistic 12 Steps
Lions Roar Mandala 12 Steps
Buddhist Recovery
Buddhism & The 12 Steps
Buddhist View on Addiction
Hungry Ghosts, Meditation & Recovery
Comparison Buddhism & Recovery
Zen, Recovery & Empowerment
Dharma Punx & Sober Karma
Alcoholics Anonymous Australia
Rainbow Recovery Club Sydney
Eleventh Step Meditation
Eleventh Step Meeting Sydney
Sober Recovery Forums
Blog Aussielicious
Blog Aussie Beauty & the Bum
Blog Adventures Gay Boy Sydney
Blog Its Sydney Bitch
Blog Tattooed Hunks
Blog Definition of a Man
Steel Lotus and Tattoo Galleries
Why go Veg? & Vegeterian Website
Vegetarianism & Boost Juice Bars
YouTube Bodhi's Gay Anthems
YouTube
Sony, Universal & Warner
Gay Australia & Guide Gay Sydney
Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras
Pink Guide & SameSame
DNA Magazine & DNA Mobi
SX News & Star Observer & GenQ
The Bookshop Darlinghurst
Out DVD and Rainbow Store
aussie Bum & 2wink & teamm8
Imperial Hotel & Bank Hotel
Stonewall Hotel & Arq Nightclub
Midnight Shift & Slide
Gay & Lesbian Counselling Services
Newtown Precinct and Newtown Pic's
City Shopping & QVB & Broadway
Galeries Victoria and World Square
Darling Harbour and The Rocks
Bondi Beach and Manly Beach
Yahoo & Google & Latest News
Yahoo Top 100 Music Video Clips
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