| The Gospel According to Marc |
| March 6, 2004 |
| Flaming Homosexuals Gays and Smoking Do a Google search for ÒGay men and smokingÓ and youÕll get directed to exactly one website about the health risks we faceÑplus 630 more dedicated to Òsmoking fetishesÓ (whatever that means) as well as a host of other fetishes I wasnÕt even aware existed, like Òteen girls in poopy diapers.Ó Forget the Information Age. WeÕre in the Too Much Information Age. According to the 2001 California Health Interview Survey, 70 percent more gays and lesbians smoke than the general population. The number seems shockingly high, especially in health conscious LA, where itÕs hard to tell smoke from smog. Regardless, the fact remains that smoking is the No. 1 killer in the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities, cutting short the lives of more LGBTs each year than AIDS, hate crimes and suicides COMBINED. The survey also concluded that the average gay man smokes twice as much as a straight one. (Then again, since no gay man wants to be considered average, who knows what that means?) And despite their reputation for consuming healthy, vegan fare like Casserole de Birkenstock, more lesbians die of lung cancer than breast cancer. The statistics are born out by first-hand experienceÑand second-hand smoke. Just go to any gay party and the liveliest conversation is outside because thatÕs where everyone goes to smoke. As a non-smoker, I donÕt mind, except now that I finally have only 10% body fat IÕm always freezing. I could put on a sweater but whatÕs the point of having only 10% body fat if you have to cover it up? Even worse are gay bars or, as I like to call them, the Disco Inferno. Hopefully Portland will follow California and New York and ban smoking in nightclubs; but in the meantime I come home sounding like Harvey Fierstein and smelling like the LaBrea Tar Pits. For most smokers, the habit starts in adolescence. But according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 59% of queer teens use tobacco while only 35% of straight ones do. WhatÕs more, gay teens are twice as likely as their straight counterparts to engage in high risk activities like illegal drug use and alcohol abuse (and 59% reported using alcohol before the age of 13). Most frighteningly, gay teens are three times more likely to attempt suicide. So whatÕs this got to do with smoking? A study done by the University of Adelaide in Australia found a direct correlation between feelings of being marginalized by mainstream communities and the impulse to sublimate that discomfort through destructive behaviors. According to statistics from P-FLAG, the average high school student (gay or straight) hears approximately 25 anti-gay slurs each day. The P-FLAG study also found that 37% of gay teens reported hearing anti-gay remarks from faculty and staff. Nearly 70% of them are being harassed or bullied, many of them on a daily basis. After that, who wouldnÕt want a drink and a cigarette? As a result, we are dying in record numbers and Big Tobacco doesnÕt care. In fact, when RJ Reynolds put together a campaign to target gays in San Francisco, they called it ÒSub-Culture Urban MarketingÓ or SCUM for short. The Centers for Disease Control tried to propose a study to examine the smoking habits of homosexuals but was met, predictably, with opposition from the Religious Wrong, who called it Òan utter waste of taxpayer moneyÓ designed to Òpromote homosexuality further in the culture." So it looks like weÕre on our own. Simply put, gay adults need to start quitting and gay kids need to quit starting. I know it ainÕt easy. But consider this: a Tulane University study showed that men who smoke more than a pack a day had a 60% higher risk of impotence than those who never smoked. So letÕs see: You go to a bar to get laid. You smoke while youÕre at the bar. You get impotent because you smoke. You donÕt get laid. Then you die of lung cancer. My, isnÕt smoking glamorous? But fear not; Marco has a solution. The next time you feel the impulse to take a drag on your cigarette, I suggest you lean over to the person next to you and give them a good lick instead. Think of it as community building. Or at least a more effective way of getting laid. Seriously, I truly believe that the key to ending the smoking epidemic is by fostering community, most especially with our gay youth. As a community we need to learn that in times of stress we should be reaching for one another instead of a death stick. ItÕs time we filled our hearts rather than our lungs. Will it work? I donÕt know. But is it worth trying? You bet your ash. And that, my friends, is The Gospel According to Marc. Marc AcitoÕs novel, How I Paid for College, will be published in September. Write him at Marc@MarcAcito.com. |
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