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Domelight Newsletter
of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa -
November 2005 Rev. Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley, Minister  
Katie Culbert, RE Director |
Marjorie's Musings
There is a book on my shelf called “Putting an End to The Worship
Wars.” The book is written mainly
for Christian churches in which the primary conflict is whether services should
follow long-standing traditions or shift styles in order to appeal to
contemporary needs and expectations, particularly of the younger set.
The first approach relies on old hymn standards and a traditional
liturgy, including a sermon. The
second approach is an energetic praise service with lots of live music, which is
often led by one or more ministers—lay or ordained.
Most often, contemporary services feature at least one large screen that
directs the congregation through participatory worship—lyrics and
inspirational images.
Unitarian Universalist congregations experience a different kind of
worship conflict. Our primary
conflicts include (and here, I am not referring specifically to our church, but to other congregations both in and out of Florida):
(1) the purpose of Sunday morning: whether the service is worship,
celebration, or something else; (2) language: whether a pulpit speaker can
safely used the G word or the J word, or “prayer,” “holy” or explicitly
religious words without being spoken to or otherwise made to feel uncomfortable;
(3) whether or not joys and concerns are “appropriate” sharing; and (4) how
to manage announcements.
Thankfully, at least for the time being, we seem to have come to a happy
medium around most of the above, issues that have led to congregations
splitting. But we have not resolved
the issue of announcements.
For those who were not among us two years ago, when I arrived in 2003,
announcements were at the beginning of the service. Following the wisdom of my colleagues not to make too many
radical changes, I left the order of service pretty much the way I inherited it
… until the Sunday that
announcements occupied the first 17 minutes of the service.
That day, in order to end the service “on time,” I offered a very
abbreviated sermon—cutting it on the spot to about five minutes—and informed
the congregation of why I did so. The
next week, I changed the sequence of the service to our present format with
announcements at the end. I heard no complaints about my taking this radical
step.
But I (and the Committee on Ministry) have heard complaints recently: that
there are too many announcements and/or that the announcements are taking too
long. Despite strong, but courteous
request by the convener to keep announcements brief, and despite printed
announcements appearing in the bulletin, for the first five Sundays of this
church year, on average, announcements have taken about 10 minutes; and once,
nearly 15 minutes.
The Worship Committee is in the process of discussing how to address this
issue. Among the suggestions are:
1.
Announcements after the chalice has been extinguished and the closing
words spoken. (We tried this on
October 16th). Do we
need a statement about the importance of announcements to our community and
inviting them to leave at that point?
2.
In lieu of spoken announcements, start a weekly bulletin board
exclusively for current announcements.
3.
Have the convener (or someone else) gather, edit, and make all
announcements.
4.
Schedule the service for one hour 15 minutes in order to accommodate
announcements.
We don’t need to put an end to a “Worship War” but we do need to
address this issue. What feels most comfortable for you? If you have ideas or suggestions, please seek out John Jeter
(chair) or a member of the Worship Committee (full list of members inside) or
plan to attend the next meeting of the Worship Committee: Thursday, November 10th
at 7:00 p.m.
See you in church,
Marjorie
Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa
One
Place. All Faiths
UUCT
BOARD OF TRUSTEES
President- Tempie
Taudte
Vice President- Diana Stevens
Treasurer- Ed Benedict
Member - Tito Basu
Member - Bill Blymiller
Member - Tom Hagner
Member - Mark Henneberry
Member - Ralph Lehman
Member - Felice
Richardson
CHURCH
AUCTION OF PROMISES AND GIFTS ON SUNDAY, DECEMBER 4TH
Call
for Donations
This
year’s auction promises to be much fun, a good chance for you to purchase
something unusual for a Christmas gift to your nearest and dearest.
However, to make it a success, now is the time to commit to donating
something of value to our church for the auction. If you have friends who
own businesses, they may be interested in donating goods or services for
publicity, and to help out our church.
Items
that may be of interest:
Dinner,
Meals, Food, Drinks Computer Assistance, Handy Man Services, Framing, Pictures,
Glass Ware, House Wares, House Services, Lawn Services, Professional Services,
Lessons, CDs, DVDs, Electrical Goods, Clothing, Lessons, Kitchen Goods, Tours,
Admission to museums, amusement parks, concerts, etc.
Our
very own Cay Cahalin will be the auctioneer, but she can't do it alone.
She needs our donations.
If
you have something to give, please let Candy Gale (813-317-7660) or Russell
Patterson (813-849-3919) know. Goods and services are welcome.
HURRICANE RELIEF COLLECTION
Thanks to the
generous contributions of the members and friends of this Church, the UUCT was
able to send a total of $2,868.93 to the UUA-UUSC for Gulf Coast hurricane
relief. The money was collected
over a period of five weeks, with four of those weeks set aside for special
Sunday collections. A breakout of the money collected is:
Unsolicited
Donation Totals
Sep 11 - $100.00 (Check) =
$ 100.00
Special
Sunday Collections
Sep 18
- $400.04 cash collection + $535.00 in checks = $ 935.04
Sep
23 - $269.89 cash collection + $500.00 in checks = $ 769.89
Oct
2 - $194.00 cash collection + $430.00 in checks = $ 624.00
Oct
8 - $115.00 cash collection + $325.00 in checks
SUBTOTAL - $2,868.93
Much thanks to
all who gave so generously. A very special thank you to our Sunday
Greeters/Collection Counters who were able to keep all the collection counts
separate and accurate even when faced with numerous interruptions. They
are truly patient souls. Signed - Ed Benedict, Treasurer.
We began this season’s
Friendship Dinners with a bang-up success!
There were three dinners in all and a grand time was had by all who
attended; wonderful food, wonderful conversation and wonderful people.
Now it’s time to sign up for November, December and January, as we
already have hosts for those months. But
don’t let that stop you if you are just dying to have a go at it during those
months…two or three dinners during the month is not a problem.
Sign-up sheets are posted in the foyer of the church with time, address
and the number of guests that can be accommodated by each host.
Sign up early to make sure you are able experience a great evening of
food, fun and camaraderie.
Molly
Hays…………November 12th
Martha Robinson
…..December 10th
Felice
Richardson…..January 14th
If
you are new to this fun way of meeting and getting to know folks in the church
in a more intimate, conversation-provoking setting, here’s how it works:
put your name and phone number on the sheet posted in the foyer of the
church…or you may call Martha Robinson (813/985-4777) or email to (mrobins7@tampabay.rr.com)
to sign up for the dinner that best fits your circumstances (location, time and
date). The list of persons wishing to attend is then given to the host who
will call you and find out where your talents lie, food-wise. The host
usually opts to fix the main dish, but that is not a hard and fast rule.
Those attending may choose from appetizers, side dishes, bread, salads, wine or
dessert or any combination thereof to complement the main course…then, you
show up with your contribution to the dinner and a hearty appetite on the
designated day and time ready to enjoy great food and conversation.
If you would like to host a dinner contact, again, Martha Robinson, (813/985-4777) (mrobins7@tampabay.rr.com)
The date is usually the 2nd Saturday of the month, but as you can see, that is not a hard and fast rule...the hosts may pick another date that is better for them and it will be on the sign up sheet.
We have had dinners based around a particular zip code (I have a list of the whole congregation and friends listed by zip code available) or a theme dinner (Cuban, Italian, Mexican, etc.), and hosts have also invited family, friends and neighbors to help fill out a scanty list (great way to introduce folks to the UUCT community…who knows, they may enjoy the company so much they will decide to find out more about UU’s and start attending church!) You, as a host, can set the mood for your particular dinner. It’s great fun.
Sign up as soon as you can
so your host can have ample time to catch you at home and plan the menu.
Thank you, Martha
50 YEARS, DVD
DOCUMENTARY
The church has been presented with the opportunity of
having a thirty-minute documentary created celebrating our 50th Anniversary.
Photographer Ross Chandler has offered his services as a gift to our
congregation. Ross has attended U.U.C.T. periodically since the mid
1970's.
Over
the next month or so Ross will be photographing members and events. When
you see him working, make him feel welcome. Any ideas and assistance will
be appreciated; just share your thoughts with the man with the camera.
Additionally,
the 50th Anniversary Committee is searching for photographs of and about
functions at church or relating to church functions. If you come across
any old photos of members and related topics, please offer them to be copied,
then returned. They are to be given to Gene Pizzo to add to his UUCT
Historic CD Collection. Ross will be working with Gene and others to
create his UUCT DVD Documentary.
The
next Women's Circle, "Goddess Gathering" will be held Sun. Nov. 13
from 6:30-8:30 pm.
Topic to
be announced. We will continue to meet and create sacred space with ritual
to honor goddesses of old, and the "goddess within" each woman. Contact
Barbara Rogers
813-391-8246.
THE CARE COMMITTEE
We're here for
you!
Most of us need
a little extra help now and then. If you need a lift to the doctor's
office or to church, someone to pick up a prescription for you, help with
preparing meals, a grocery shopper or a hospital visitor, please give one of the
CARE COMMITTEE a call. We'll also lend a friendly ear if you just need to
talk.
Our committee:
Gwen
Anderson…971-6369
Beverly Bethune…907-6730
Denise Carrera…..985-0695
Linda Chappell….. 977-2053
Denise
Dorsey…...972-7728
Joyce Formica.…...988-1907
Willow LaMonte…643-7285
Cheryl Phillips……909-2542
Suzie
Siegel……... 866-5109
Joe Weinstein…… 263-2989
If you'd
like to join us on the committee, please call Joyce Formica at 988-1907.
The committee meets quarterly, and our next meeting will be in January.
Remember, we're
here for you.
Because
of space limitations groups that are not part of the Religious Education program
must at times use the small dome or the nursery for meetings. In recent weeks the space has been used and chairs, tables
and materials were rearranged and trash was left behind. We ask that you please return the space to it's
original set up afterwards. Thanks! - The Religious Education Program
Universalist Church of Tampa
One
Place. All Faiths
We welcomed 10 new members
to the UUCT congregation on Oct. 2! Please help make them feel at home. Here’s
the inside scoop from five new members, mostly in their own words:
Edward
Cole:
I moved to Tampa
five years ago from NYC and live close to the church. I have one son, who is
graduating from Columbia University this year. I moved here to find a more
serene, laid back and congenial life style. (Oh well). I was over the hustle and
bustle of the big city, and wanted a warmer climate, and a slower paced,
geographic temperament. I am a "recovering Catholic." I've
"experimented" with other major religions over the past 10 years,
including Unitarian churches. I visited a Unitarian church years ago, and found
it more compatible to my personal beliefs and values.
I have a BS
degree in Psychology; worked as Director of Employment at Columbia University
for many years and as Employment Manager at Busch Gardens until a year ago. Now
I am in an early, "semi-retirement." All my adult professional life
has been in human resources. At this point, I'd love to have a part-time job,
preferably 20 hours a week.
I was initially
attracted to UU just out of curiosity, seeing the "dome" when driving
past. One day I went online, and wrote the Minister of my spiritual interests.
She invited me to a service, and the rest is history.
I hope to find
individuals at UU with social, political and personal issues similar to mine. I
am a very outgoing individual and enjoy the outdoors, canoeing, kayaking, etc. I
also enjoy working with children, some office work, am excellent with public
relations, and good speaking to groups.
Gwen
Johnson:
I have lived in Tampa for
one year with a 15-year-old cat named Miss Lee. I moved here from Bowling Green,
Ohio where I attended a UU church off and on. I am drawn to Unitarian
Universalism because I consider myself to be spiritual but not religious. We
seem to live in a materialistic, self-centered society, and the UU church
reminds me that there are other values besides these.
In the past, I taught high
school for five years in Ohio and Michigan. I am now a full-time graduate
student at USF working on a PhD in math education. I will be working on the
degree for at least three more years. I plan to leave Florida at that time.
Hobbies: classical guitar,
roller-blading, reading fiction, environmentalism, philosophical discussions,
tutoring kids in math.
Judy
Mintz:
I am a widow with three
adult children, four grandchildren and two cats, Cooshotishi and Kiboko, whom I
got at the Humane Society. I live in New Tampa in the Pebble Creek condos.
This is my first time as a
UU member. My mother was raised Unitarian but didn’t attend as an adult. When
I was a child, my family lived on the Isles of Shoales, 10 miles off the coast
of New Hampshire in the Atlantic Ocean. My father was caretaker of the hotel,
which is owned as a summer retreat by the Unitarian Universalists. I lived there
until age 7, where we were the only inhabitants on the island nine months of the
year.
I found UUCT through
National Organization of Women (NOW) meetings held at the church in the late
‘80s-early ‘90s. A friend, Carolyn Hines, brought me to church. At UUCT, I
hope to find friendship, acceptance of my love and admiration of Jewish religion
and my sense of acceptance of all faiths and beliefs.
While I’m open to church
activities, I have multiple sclerosis, which limits my ability to participate. I
used to be very active, but balance and fatigue problems prevent me from doing
much that I would like to do. So it’s not lack of interest, apathy or laziness
– but rather just the place I am in now!
I have a BA in Gerontology
and Masters in Mental Health Counseling and am a retired mental health counselor
and researcher. I enjoy sketching and painting, reading, reading groups, yoga
and home projects.
Heather
Roy:
In
Florida for six years, I now live near Busch and 50th Street with two
cats, Azazel and Amber. This is my first UU church. I found UUCT on the website.
Reading past Domelights gave me a really good idea of what this church is about.
I was drawn by the spirit of openness and friendliness. I quickly joined the
choir, which I enjoy very much.
I
have a BA in History, which is currently adorning my wall. I dust it off
occasionally. I'm a trainer for Alltel Technical Support. I teach people how to
fix phones.
I
enjoy canoeing, am a big bookworm and have a really goofy sense of humor.
Michael
(Mike) Guilford:
I
am a single gay man; divorced with two adult children: David is 24, Candace is
23. Both live in upstate New York. My sister, Deborah Irizarry, often attends
our UU congregation and my mother, Ellen Guilford, visits when she feels well
enough.
I
live in Zephyrhills. My family has owned a home in the area since the 1960's, so
this area has always been my second home. I lived in Tampa in 1992-3 and last
year, 2004, I moved down permanently. My hometown, Belfast NY, is south of
Rochester, NY. Most of my adult life was spent in Syracuse, NY.
My
awareness of the UU congregation goes back to the early 1980's, but at that time
I was not willing to participate in any church. Last year after settling in
Florida, I began to correspond with fellow Humanists in the area. I discovered
that many of these folks attended the UU congregation in Lakeland, so I first
visited that church. I was soon hooked. But so much of my life revolves around
the Tampa area, that I decided last spring to visit. I am so happy to be part of
a marvelous spiritual church. UU principles are consistent with my personal
philosophy. The services provide opportunities for me to reflect, evaluate and
expand my belief system.
I
have two BA degrees; Communications and French, both from Houghton College in
Houghton, NY. This is a small Christian college where my mother once taught. I
have post graduate work at Middlebury College in Middlebury, VT as well as
credits at Syracuse University, where I last worked.
Boiled
down, I have had three careers. The first was in broadcasting, as an on-air
personality including hosting a talk show. The second was computer sales
focusing on desktop publishing and graphic arts. The third was a teaching staff
member at Syracuse University. I worked in the Newhouse School for Public
Communications managing the college help desk and coordinating eleven
computerized teaching labs.
I
do countryana wood inlay artwork. I also write, and rewrite, and illustrate my
children's stories. I love to hike, swim and play cards.
I
am already active with Interweave. As I rework my personal commitments, I plan
to join SMUG.
If
you are a new member and have not yet been featured in the Domelight, please
contact Liz Taylor at 813-237-8497 or liztaylorfl@tampabay.rr.com
.INTERWEAVE ANOUNCEMENT
Interweave
had a wonderful joint discussion with the Men, Women and Feminism group at
our October Meeting. Special thank you to Willow for hosting us at her home.
This month we return to the regular business meeting on the 13th of November
after Church in the small dome. This will be a potluck so please feel free
to bring your culinary experiments for tryout on willing test subjects.
All those concerned with the equality of Lesbian, bisexual, trans-gendered, and
Gay people are welcome!
(Covenant
of Unitarian Universalist Pagans)
Remember the days of 'ol,
when storytelling, poems, music, songs, and dances were the way of
entertainment? Come and join our Full Moon Celebration on November 19 at
7:30 pm for our Bardic Circle and offer your talent to entertain others.
Circles in the Woods CUUPS meeting will be November 7 is at 7:00pm,
followed with a workshop on Healing Touch with instructor, Carol Westmoreland.
Class fee is a donation.
Also note: CUUPS provides "rites of passage" rituals of Handfastings
(marriage), Wiccanings, House Blessings, Womanings, and other life and spiritual
celebrations. Just drop of a message in the CUUPS mailbox at UUCT, or
email gldnpuma@earthlink.net
and we will get back to you.
YOUR NEW WORSHIP
COMMITTEE!
Take this opportunity to become
acquainted with this year's Worship Committee, which includes the following
members:
John
Jeter (Chair)
Marty
Pelham
Tom
Hagner
Harriet
Blymiller
Mall Giles
Rev.
Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley (Minister, ex-officio member of all committees)
We welcome your feedback and
comments about any aspect of the Sunday morning Worship Services. You may
contact any member of this committee with your comments.
The Worship
Committee meets at the church, at 7:00 pm, on the second Thursday of each month.
RECORDINGS OF
SERVICES.
Have a particular sermon you want to hear again?
Really liked that choir anthem and would like a copy? Your favorite
son/daughter/friend was featured in the service and you would like a keepsake?
All the services are recorded and available on cd. Just stop by the sound
room and ask. Copies are $5 and are generally available the week following
the request.
Thanks to Michael Blymiller,
Jay Hall, and Gene Pizzo for their work and emergency assistance in allowing us
to view "Human Shield" prior to the August 21 Service.
RAMBUNCTIOUS
UU GALAVANTERS
Rambunctious UU GalavanterS had a fantastic gathering today.
There were 11 of us who met for the MOSI exhibit 'Bodies'. It was most
enlightening. We had Ralph Lehman with us to explain things as we had
many questions. It was a wonderful/educational activity. Then we all
decided to go to a Vietnamese restaurant for lunch.
Note: We changed the name from Retired UU GalavanterS to
Rambunctious. We feel the name is more fitting and you certainly don't
have to be retired to join us for any of these activities. Join us when
you can. This is a drop in type of thing. Bring friends - that's OK,
too. Call Judy Lehman (866-0591) or Diana Stevens (948-4630) for
further details.
UP COMING EVENTS:
Saturday, November 5th - RUUGS Road Trip -
meet at the church at 9:00AM and we will be car pooling to Micanope for
the Fall Festival. We may drop by Marilyn Kershner and Al Tweedy's new
abode.
Wednesday, November 9th - RUUGS Arts Event -
It is from 6pm to 9pm and I know that is not during the day - but some things
are worth getting together for. So, this is the proposal - Second
Wednesday ARTS YBOR where History Meets the Arts. On the second Wed of
each month, Ybor City's galleries and creative businesses, unique boutiques,
retail shops and its many fine restaurants welcome visitors with special events
honoring Ybor City's heritage as the cultural and economic hub of Tampa. I
have a flyer and will post it at church. You can contact 813-248-3712 for
more information. We could meet in the courtyard of Centro Ybor at
6:00 pm, as that is very close to the parking garage, and it is central to all
the participating events.
Wednesday, November 16th - RUUGS Afternoon Concert
- Noon - 1:00PM (eating & socializing) 2:00 - 3:00PM
(Concert). Bring your own sack lunch. Dessert & drink
available for purchase. CONCERT FEATURING SMALL POTATOES
www.smallpotatoesmusic.com
This
will be a pass the collection plate twice affair: First time for
the musicians and second time for the church.
The Chicago based contemporary singer-songwriter/folk duo SMALL
POTATOES is Jacquie Manning and Rich Prezioso. They are
entertaining, energetic, eclectic and extremely talented.
Audiences adore the Spuds. At their performances, one hears two great
voices, fine guitar playing, and a touch of tin whistle, flute, mandolin,
bodhran, and other percussion toys. They perform in
clubs and coffeehouses across the U.S., as well as in major festivals, including
the Philadelphia Folk Festival, the Walnut Valley Folk Festival, and the
Summerfolk Festival in Owen Sound, Ontario. They have
headlined the Gamble Rogers Music Festival in St Augustine and the South Florida
Folk Festival in Ft. Lauderdale.
CONCERTS
IN THE UU DOME
Gloria Holloway, Committee Chair,
813-837-6572, gshello@tampabay.rr.com
Please keep tuned to the concert link at the church web site for the
latest updates to the concert calendar. You can also find concert info on
my blog www.gloriasmusic.blogspot.com
The Domelight deadline date
finds me with a couple of "maybe" November concerts but nothing
definite. If they materialize, I'll spread the word via our group
email, the website, etc.
As for December, although we had our "official 50th anniversary concert" a few months ago, we've not had an "official 50th anniversary HOLIDAY concert." Thus, in the authority invested in me as the concert committee chair, I'm hereby declaring that on December 11 we will have our "Official 50th Anniversary HOLIDAY Concert" featuring the popular folk group SOUTHWIND. Since this is Southwind's 8th holiday concert for us, it's only fitting that they should do the "50th" honors. internetfla.com/southwind/ourmusic.html
Later in December we'll have
a 2nd "unofficial" holiday concert. It will feature the
young, loopy, energetic, multi-talented, MPE BAND. mpeband.com.
There's some talk about having
an occasional weekday daytime concert. The thought is that this might
appeal to retirees or others who are free during the day. One idea
would be to maybe have a noonish pot luck or sack lunch and socializing
time followed by a concert. The important thing would be to
have it early enough so that everyone could be back home well before the
rush-hour traffic jams. If this sounds like something of
interest to you, please give me a holler.
ADULT RE: MOVIES, BOOKS, CLASSES, &
EVENTS
MOVIES
The
2005-2006 POPCORN & OPINIONS series continues this month with the movie Real
Women Have Curves, hosted and facilitated by Pat and Ed Benedict. The
movie relates to labor, cultural, and women's issues: You won't want to
miss it!
SYNOPSIS of Real Women Have Curves, taken from www.rottentomatoes.com
Ana is a beautiful Mexican-American girl who has just completed high school.
Her English teacher and mentor, Mr. Guzman recognizes that Ana is a smart
and talented student and wants her to apply to college. But Ana's deeply
traditional mother, Carmen, insists that she stay at home and help her sister
working in a dressmaking factory. Ana
is strong-willed and sometimes defiant, but she accepts her mother's
instructions and works at the factory, simultaneously applying to Columbia
University. The sweatshop that her sister operates opens Ana's eyes to
the injustices of business. She
sees how her sister is mistreated and underpaid by the Bloomingdale's executives
who have contracted her to make their dresses.
Dresses that cost the factory $18 to make are sold at Bloomindales for
$600, and Ana questions where all that money goes. Ana awakens her mother,
sister, and co-workers to the idea that they are more than just pretty pictures
or wives or mothers. In the end,
Ana learns a lot about herself, her family, and even romance, on her way to
seeing herself as a woman. This beautiful, sweet film is directed by
Colombian-born Patricia Cardoso, and highlights the superb talent of 17-year-old
Ferrera in the role of Ana.
November 18, 2005 - Real Women Have Curves – hosted and facilitated by Pat and Ed Benedict (note change from previous listing)
December, 2005- no movie - Happy Holidays!
January 20, 2006- Whale Rider - hosted by Diana Stevens and Grant Wilson; facilitated by Suzie Siegel
February 17, 2006 - Moolade -hosted by Harriet & Bill Blymiller; facilitated by Rev. Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley
March 17, 2006 - Irish film (TBA)
April 21, 2006- Strawberry & Chocolate – hosted and facilitated by TBA; facilitated by TBA
May 19, 2006- Chutney Popcorn - hosted by TBA;
facilitated by Suzie Siegel
We are in need
of one final host for our movie, Chutney Popcorn. Please email ddorsey3@tampabay.rr.com
if interested. The host provides the house, popcorn,
and either a big screen TV or normal sized TV, while the facilitator provides
the DVD and prepares some questions in advance for the discussion following the
movie. Guests are welcome to bring along their favorite snacks and/or
drinks to share. There will be a donation box available for anyone who
would like to contribute to the purchase of a multi-media projector for the
Dome.
BOOKS
Anyone who is
interested in facilitating a book discussion after the month of February, please
contact Denise Dorsey at ddorsey3@tampabay.rr.com. The
groups will meet on the designated Sundays following Service. Bring a
bag lunch and be ready for a lively discussion.
If the book discussion date happens to coincide with a Picnic at the Dome
day, you’re welcome to purchase a delectable
dinner instead.
Don’t miss our next book discussion,
November 13th,
which will be The Bluest Eye,
by
Toni Morrison, and
facilitated by Rev. Marjorie Bowen-Wheatley.
The Bluest Eye
Originally
published in 1970, The Bluest Eye is Toni Morrison's first novel.
Set in Lorain, Ohio, in 1941, the point of view is passed like a baton
from one character to the next, with Morrison's own voice functioning as a kind
of gold standard throughout. The focus, though, is on an 11-year-old black girl
named Pecola Breedlove, whose entire family has been given a cosmetic cross to
bear: You looked at them and wondered why they were so ugly; you looked closely
and could not find the source. Then
you realized that it came from conviction, their conviction.
It was as though some mysterious all-knowing master had given each one a
cloak of ugliness to wear, and they had each accepted it without question.
And they took the ugliness in their hands, threw it as a mantle over
them, and went about the world with it.
This
vein of self-hatred is exactly what keeps Morrison's novel from devolving into a
cut-and-dried scenario of victimization. She
may in fact pin too much of the blame on the beauty myth: "Along with the
idea of romantic love, she was introduced to another--physical beauty. Probably the most destructive ideas in the history of human
thought. Both originated in envy,
thrived in insecurity, and ended in disillusion." Yet the destructive power
of these ideas is essentially colorblind, which gives The Bluest Eye the sort of
universal reach that Morrison's imitators can only dream of.
And that, combined with the novel's modulated pathos and musical,
fine-grained language, makes for not merely a sophisticated debut but a
permanent one. –(Excerpts taken from James Marcus on Amazon.com
November 13th - The Bluest Eye, by
Toni Morrison, facilitated by Rev. Marjorie Bowen-Wheatley.
December 4th - For the Love of a Dog, by
Elisabeth Rose, led by (Elisabeth) Lisa Rose
January 8th- Star Trek & Religion (bookless),
led by Suzie Siegel
February 19th- The Dance of the Dissident
Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd, led by Rena Bird
CLASSES/EVENTS
Ongoing
1. CUUPS will be sponsoring a Drumming Circle open to all on the 4th Monday of every month at 7:30 PM. Please contact Mary Francis for more information. gldnpuma@earthlink.net
2.
The Knitting Circle will meet at 9:30 AM in the small
dome, before the Sunday Service. Please contact Liz Bleau lizbleau@verizon.net
or Emily Nelson Emily.Nelson3@verizon.net for
more information.
3.
The SHAG (Secular
Humanist Agnostic Group) group continues to meet periodically
during the month on evenings. Check the order of service for dates.
4. The Current Events group meets at 10:00 AM in the small dome before the service.
5. Living in Simplicity classes continue. Contact Betty Kaminker (813-246-6568) for more information.
6. The
Women's Circle, Goddess Gathering, meets
monthly in the UU Dome. All women who attend the UU church
are welcome. For further information contact Barbara Rogers
Boardwalkbarbara@hotmail.com.
7. Small Group Ministry: Groups of six to ten people who covenant
to be together to share the richness of personal experience, growth and service.
Groups are facilitated. So me have
organized around a particular theme, while others are more open. When the group
reaches capacity, a new group is formed. For further information, contact
Joan Lund at lundjb@verizon.net or 981-9727.
8.
Full Moon Circle meets monthly on the Saturday closest to the Full Moon.
Check out our website www.uutampa.org
for more details.
Upcoming
2. Exploring Humanism, facilitated by Dr. Tito Basu; Tuesday evenings at 7PM: 11-1-05, 11-15-05, 12-6-05, 12-13-05.
3. Building Your Own Theology, (6-10), facilitated by Rev. Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley; Tuesday evenings at 7PM, 1-24-06 through 2-24-06.
4.
Ethical Issues, facilitated by TBA; Tuesday evenings at 7PM,
3-7-05 through 3-28-05.
5. Wicca 101:
Sponsored by the Circles in the Woods CUUPS (Covenant of Unitarian Universalist
Pagans), and open to the public. Dates are January 6 and 13, February 13 and 20,
and March 13 and 20 from 7:00-9:00 p.m. A
$30 donation is requested for materials. To register, e-mail: gldnpuma@earthlink.net.
6.Getting
to Know UU: For those who may
feel ready to join us in membership, and for those who are already members but
have not yet taken this class. Participants
are invited to explore their own spiritual journeys, the history of Unitarian
Universalism, and to learn about how our church operates.
Facilitated by Marty Pelham and the Rev. Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley, this
class will be offered on Saturdays, January 28 and June 3, 2006 from 10:00 a.m.
to 4:00 p.m. d
BECOMING A MEMBER OF UUCT
The members of the Unitarian
Universalist Church of Tampa (UUCT) would like to extend an invitation to
persons interested in learning more about us and becoming members of the
congregation. Membership is open to
any and all persons, eighteen years or older, who are prepared to make a
personal commitment to and financial investment in the UUCT. In addition, we have a category of membership, youth member,
for persons fourteen to seventeen years of age who have made a personal
commitment to the Church. Youth members have the same rights as adult
members except as limited by the provisions of the by-laws involving contracts
and financial commitments on behalf of the Church.
Persons considering membership are encouraged to participate in the
"Getting to Know UU Classes" as a means to enhance understanding of
the principles underlying the mission of the Unitarian Universalist Association
as well as our Church. Classes are
informative and provide an opportunity to get to know other new members and
begin to establish a connection with others in the Church.
Persons interested in seeking membership with UUCT would need to do one or both
of the following:
1. Participate in one of the "Getting to Know UU" membership classes scheduled throughout the year, followed by signing the membership book.
2.
Seek out the Minister, Chairperson of the Membership Committee, or President of
the Board of Trustees to inform them of interest in signing the membership book.
That person will then arrange for the membership book to be made
available for signing.
New members will be contacted within a few weeks by a representative of the
Finance/Canvas Committee to discuss your areas of interest for involvement with
the congregation as well as your financial commitment for the upcoming year.
We welcome your involvement and participation and anticipate you will
find UUCT an exciting avenue in meeting your interests and needs.
Membership Committee
DRUMMING CIRCLE
Join the DRUM CIRCLE
sponsored by CUUPS on the fourth Monday of every month - November 28 / December
26, from 7 -9pm in the large dome. This is not a group of "expert
drummers" so you do not need any previous experience to join in. If
you do not have a drum, that's okay because most likely there will be some drums
to share. Also, join in with rattles, shakers or other instruments.
There will be no charge, but we will provide some drinks and snacks, so bring a
few coins in your pocket.
WALK
IN THE PARK
A group of UU’s meet on at Lettuce Lake Park Thursday mornings
at 8:30 am for a brisk walk on the paved path and good conversation. To
find the parking area and meeting place, take the Lettuce Lake Parkway to the
end. Turn left and then immediately
turn right into the parking lot. We will gather there and begin the walk at 8:30.
You are welcome to join us. For
more information contact Patricia McCracken at 988-6453.
Come
one! Come All!
Habitat for Unitarians Day
Spruce Up! Clean Up! Fix Up!
Saturday, November 12, 2005 9:00 am - Noon
Followed by an all church picnic!
We need you to help make this day a success.
Lots of community fun and accomplishments guaranteed.
We will divide up all volunteers into teams to work inside outside, upside and
downside our two domes and our 71/2 acre property. Pick your team and pick your
job. There is a job for everyone. Sign up in church or just
show up. Even if you're busy that day, we have jobs that can be done
before or afterwards. If you know of something that needs to
be done, call and get it put on the list. Please call Marla Frazer
932-8490 or 777-9931 for all questions and comments.
ARE YOU MOVING????
Have you moved?
Are you are
planning to move? If either of
these applies to you and you would like to continue receiving the Domelight,
please put your change of address on the guest register, located on the
reception table in the entrance foyer, noting address change.
Printing your new address & phone number clearly will help us keep our
records updated.
SUNDAY
9:30am
Knitting Circle (Small Dome)
11-12pm
(Grades 1-12) Youth R. E. (Small
Dome)
10am
Meditation in the Meadow (follow Signs)
10am
Current
Affairs (Small Dome)
11am
Sunday Service
11am
Child Care (Nursery)
6pm
Wonderful
Wednesday Potluck
6:45pm
Choir Rehearsal
8:30am
Nature Walk in the Park (info: 813/988-6453)
CALENDAR
OF NOVEMBER EVENTS
Nov 2 (7-8:30pm)………………….…Living With Simplicity
Nov.
5 (7pm-???)………………1st Friday Potluck @ Jerry’s
Nov.
6 (12:30pm-Small Dome)……………...Church Council
Nov.
10 (7pm)…………...………………Worship Committee
Nov. 12 (9am-1pm)…. Super Clean Up Building &Grounds
Nov. 19 (9am-4pm)……………………Getting To Know UU
Nov. 19
(7:30-10pm)….….......Full Moon Celebration(Open)
Nov.
13…………….December DOMELIGHT DEADLINE
Nov.
13 (12:30pm)…………..Book Discussion (Bluest Eyes)
Nov.
13 (6:30-8:30pm).Women’s Circle(Goddess Gathering)
Nov.
16 (1pm)………………………..Small Potatoes Concert
Nov. 17 (7pm)…………..…....……….………Board Meeting
Nov.
28 (7-9:30pm)………………………………Drum Circle
Remember, you can now fulfill your pledge contribution electronically. Please stop in the church office and pick up a form to fill out to sign up for this service. Complete the form and send or bring it back to the Finance Committee at the church (they have a mail box in the church office). It is a great way to get your pledge in on time with no fuss and no bother. No more frantically writing a check while the offering plate sits in your lap causing exasperation to those around you. No more panicking at the end of the month when you realize you were out of town the day you usually make your pledge payment and totally forgot after that. Life is a breeze when you pay electronically. Try it! You’ll like it!